All about friends! x

HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS


1) Spend more time around people.
2) Join an organization or club with people who have common interests.
3) Join a sports team.
4) Volunteer.
5) Talk to people.
6) Make eye contact and smile.
7) Start a conversation.
8) Make small talk.
9) Introduce yourself at the end of the conversation.
10) Initiate a get-together.
11) Take the opportunity over your friend's interests.
12) Ask them out for lunch/ dinner.
13) Don't do anything to pressure someone into being friends with you.
14) Be loyal to a friend.
15) Be a good friend. 
16) Be reliable.
17) Be a good listener.
18) Be trustworthy.
19) Choose your friends wisely.
20) Put emphasis on the good, unique qualities about yourself. 
21) Encourage your friend.
22) Get a job, many people meet and socialize that way.
23) Be confident.
24) Don't separate your friend from the rest of the group.
25) Use a friendship matchmaking website to make new friends.
26) Accept your friend as who he is.
27) Don't be bossy and know each other base life.
28) Know the reason why you have to be friend with them. (Keredhaan Allah)
29) Never leave old good friends because you may like someone else more.
30) You don't have to show off anything from your friend because be a good friend is far enough. 

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HOW TO COMFORT YOUR FRIEND

1) Compliment your friend about their good abilities especially when they are give up on something.
2) Let them know that you're there for them.
3) Tell your friend that nobody is perfect.
4) Be ready to listen patiently when your friend is revealing her/his story.
5) Tell your friends that you love them the way you are.
6) Give your friends a hug, pat them gently on the shoulder or back.
7) Tell them this world would be nothing without them.
8) Don't tell other people about your friends' problem or it'll make them more angry and upset.
9) Don't be judgmental.
10) Realize the process of resolving their problem will likely take times.

HOW TO BE A GOOD FRIEND

1) Be honest.
2) Be real.
3) Be loyal.
4) Be respectful.
5) Share.
6) Watch out for your friend.
7) Pitch in for friends during times of crisis.
8) Always give thoughtful advice.
9) Listen.
10) Step back and give your friend space.
11) Don't be selfish.
12) Be forgiving when things go wrong in your friendship.
13) Live by the golden rules.
14) Seek to deepen your friendship over time.
15) Be trustworthy.
16) Go beyond the call of duty.
17) Never betray to each other.
18) Do not gossip and let your friends feel lonely.

HOW TO DEAL WITH AN INSINCERE FRIEND

1) Realize that if your friend is fake, there is a reason.
2) Do not obsess over your friend's flaws.
3) Still be friend with them because your good attitudes may change them a lot. 
4) Show your sincere toward them so they will realize how bad you want to be friend with them.

HOW TO GET RID OF YOUR ANNOYING FRIENDS

1) Pretending you're really interest in thing they dislike and start make them feel annoyed on that thing.
2) Sit with other friends at lunch.
3) Give another friend a code word that means "Lets Leave!".
4) Tell the '''Annoying one''' you've got to leave.
5) Hang out with someone that you like often that they can't stand.
6) Confuse or toy with the annoying person.
7) Be prepared for both reactions.
8) Know the limit of your action/ words from a harsh one or you'll get damage.
9) End the friendship. (Last step if thing get worse)

HOW TO DECIDE WHETHER YOU NEED TO END UP A RELATIONSHIP

1) Access the cause.
2) Pinpoint the issue.
3) Seek counsel.
4) Determine if it is still possible to be friends.
5) Weight the benefits and the detriments.
6) Consider whether either of you have had this sort of experience before.
7) Be sure you made your decision for the right reasons.
8) Decide once and for all.
9) Don't badmouth that person.
10) Anything happen later, still Apologize. 

 *Click the video below for "How to end up a friendship"*


HOW TO SURVIVE A FRIENDSHIP FIGHT

1) Let the argument cool down first, a little.
2) Find out what it is that you did to make your friend mad or angry.
3) Reflect on what you may have done.
4) Try to explain why you said or did what you did.
5) Showing your friend that you still care can help.
6) Remember to say you're sorry first then to make up.
7) Try to understand your friend's perspective.
8) Control your emotions. 
9) If you're avoiding each other, don't try to make the other jealous.
10) Be open about fixing the problem.
11) Maybe you both realize it was a stupid fight..



xoxo,
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