Have a great mission and reset your mind.
I mean here you cannot pass your good patient level if you do this just to get the compliments from people around or to catch the attention in front of your girl/boyfriend but you have to set up your mind that "This is my new look to get Allah's blessed instead of anything." Well so many people take this as a small case but you have to realize that this beautiful attitude can give you a good results then. Maybe you had be dismissed from any company or looked jerk in front of your friends or lose something that means a lot to you. And probably this could be a way to settle them all.
Always do kindness
I mean here try to do something you dislike such as wash the dishes, do your homework quickly, always help people from any race, read the Holy Al-Quran and sorts. I suggest that 1) Try something you dislike, 2) Try something that needs a properly solutions but doesn't mean you have to take a big case then because you're still in progress. Maybe this can simplify your mission to be patient besides practice to be quiet.
Think for awhile then act
I mean here that you cannot do everything without think first. Every action that you do must have been planned before, right? So here, practice to think for awhile & take how many times you need and then give an action. Think properly and don't take a shortcuts. While you think the solutions, please think the benefits that you'll get after that because it's for yourself too.
Realize that whatever happen, everything gonna be normal
I mean here for example lets take a look at a fight between a sibling. It's very normal action but remember fighting more than 3 days is really not good. So here we can see that whatever happen between you and someone as long as you love her/him and still want to take a good care of your relationship with 'em so just set up you mind that you'll be as well as before at last. So, realized that it just wasting to fight. Just be cool and shut up and act normal like nothing walks through.
Always remind yourself
I mean here you want to be patient because of an interest reason, am I right? So here, you have set everything based on your mission. I prefer you to always remind yourself about that mission as well as life also have a mission ok. Practice to say "Astaghfirullah" -as a Muslim- whenever you feel not good or someone disturbing you that make you mad. Try this way -Keep calm, take a deep breathe, smile and set your mind "Whatever, I don't care, I don't care, please...." In Shaa Allah you can walk through it.
Stay away from bad people with bad attitude
I mean here please keep yourself away from anybody that own bad attitude -gangster, smoker, witch- because this is one of the factor that you're going mad and out of patient, I said it because you have practice yourself and pick up that aura of being a bad boy/girl.
Don't look at the negative side
I mean here after I saw Prof Dr. Muhaya on Entri Jamilah said that people who always thought bad on other people as known as lack of confident in her/himself. You must get jealous/ hate that person and made you felt ugly or anything negative upon yourself. You know what? First, you have ruined other people and 2nd, you have ruined yourself. As I can conclude, think positive frequently or maybe you can set your mind whenever you think bad quickly say "All Not Perfect".
Do your hobby and make calmness work
I mean here working at a busy office 24/7 can make you feel stress and can put yourself into a danger place where you always getting mad, don't care about the surrounding outside and sorts think. It's kinda same with all students who are really feel depressed because of so many homework, annoying classmates where you really can't comfort yourself anymore. So, whenever weekend come/ come near, plan something good that can make you feel calm and forget everything for awhile -gardening, playing piano, sharing problems, mae sleepover- So this can release your tension at once avoid you to feel mad.
Take people thought as a small case
I mean here it doesn't look impossible when people harsh words towards you can make you feel depressed and once you speak, everything can blown up. Control yourself and you better not speak on suck that time. Remember, people thought is nothing but Allah's.................... Full of everything. That's the most important thing for you to know. Otherwise, try to take a look at a person who always cry for something so light that doesn't need tears to solve that problem. Oh what if you try to remind yourself whenever you cry and say this loud "Gedik, gedik, gedik ah" haha maybe it helps, who knows?
Exercise and Eat right
I mean here this is a basic way to mending your heart, your mind etc. By the time you always exercise -jogging- and eat right -more nutritious food- so In Shaa Allah you have pass grade 1 haha besides, it's important for your body and thinking.
Own a diary and reveal everything instead of telling people at the public.
Towards good personality, together lets change the world!
xoxo,
HfshAfndi
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