How to handle problems?

1) Make sure you understand the problem completely.
   -Figure out how the problem started.

   -Aware deeper meaning of the problem.

2) Get as much information as you can in order to make an informed decision about the problem.

3) Talk to people in your support group such as friends, family, parents etc.

4) Ask questions and get as many details as possible.

5) Take time. 

   -Make sure that you're calm.

6) Make a list of pros and cons.

7) Evaluate the list.

8) Consider rules, your long term objectives if this is a big/small case.

9) Realize that when you deal with certain problems, not everyone will agree.

10) Make a decision and stick to it.

11) Do what you think is best at the time and you shouldn't regret at your position.

12) Focus on the solution instead of wondering who's the person that's wrong. 

13) Never think negatively, this will increase your tension towards your problem.

14) Let it all out.

15) Pretend like there's nothing happen so people may forget and proceed the life journey.

16) Never decide to "quit" and stay away from the problem because people can see your un-responsible  attitude.

17) Don't be mean and don't ever try to fight.

18) Try to understand and realize that there's lots of big problems that will occur instead of that one.

19) Don't be pushy or too dramatic and make it easier. 

20) Try to stay on good terms.

21) Think about your health and your future life and your succeed.

22) Believe "Where there's a beginning, there's an ending."

23) Know that all of the problems is a natural tendency and there're kind of beautiful mess.
24) Think before you speak out.

25) Get yourself close to the Almighty God.

A: Remember, Allah hate the person who break up a relationship. 

B: Together we can end the war easily, but we have to start, now. The door was already open, so what's you waiting for?

C: Keep remind yourself, people who are rich in patient are absolutely stronger than people who always show the emotional.
A: Know that you're the strongest person you've met and whatever things people do to tear you down but they'll never successful.

B: Yes, try to see people who are on the roads and busier than you, craving for foods and all. They're much more need help. 
C: Treat yourself good is important too so that you can appreciate your life more and have a very fantastic journey of your life, In Shaa Allah.
A: Know that Allah know everything without you speak out ok. No matter what.

xoxo,

HfshAfndi